So I told you all how I spent my 30th birthday in Charlotte, getting to the bag. What I failed to mention was how the weekend ended. I had another one of those life-altering moments happen, but there was no bodysuit involved this time. (IYKYK) I made it back to the DMV and had a …
You have a lot of time on your hands being single, and I’ve spent much of that in my head. This is why I’m able to provide you with a retrospective report of my colorful dating life. I’ve done many things right and have definitely done some things wrong. We’re so quick to place the …
I’m old, folks. Yes, your boy is officially part of the 30 Club. Just as I’ve finally started to embrace getting older, people constantly remind me that thirty is still relatively young. In the first thirty days of this new decade, there’s already been so much change happening. From proudly saying “no” to things that …
I was never properly introduced to sex. Remember, I grew up in a very strict Christian household, and the last thing my parents were trying to do was talk to their son about The Birds and the Bees: Gay Edition. I’d never seen or even heard them have sex in the 18 years I was …
It’s that time of year again! We’re all pulling out the festive attire, eating till our stomachs hurt, and giving a little thanks. Beyond that, it’s also ‘cuffing season.’ If you haven’t heard of that term, then you’re too young for this chat. You can exit left where Queen Bey said everything you own in …
This past weekend was the good time I didn’t know I needed. I met up with some folks who knew me back when I wore glasses without lenses (another questionable fashion statement) and when the running joke was that I looked like Junior from My Wife & Kids. *inserts crying emoji* Anyhow, the hostess with …
It’s been a minute, folks! Life has definitely been life-ing, as the kids say today. I owe my survival to Processco and Drake’s new album. (No ‘For All The Dogs’ slander will be tolerated.) The random joint pains I’m experiencing daily are a reminder that I’m getting closer to 30. That’s coming in just a …
I’m sure we’ve all heard of Ciara’s prayer. If there was a physical copy of that highly coveted piece of African American literature, I bet it’d be worth millions. For now, it remains a secret, like that one ingredient in my aunt’s spaghetti. Is there such a thing as Mr. Perfect? One thing’s for sure, …
Growing up, I always felt different. I wasn’t the guy into football or sports in general. I had a brief stint in basketball, and that’s a whole other story. It wasn’t until I discovered America’s Next Top Model that I found a sense of belonging in the world. I’m no model, but who didn’t love …
I found myself initially writing this like I was Lady Whistledown with your latest high society gossip. Honestly, I don’t know what I’m calling this just yet. This will be is a space in which I’ll have no problem showing up whole. Yes, whole. I’m currently on this journey of figuring out who the fuck I …
